I want the full foundation
Start with Book 1. It explains the POSH safety mindset, digital resilience, calm communication, early action and the parent system.
Book 1: Raising Digitally Resilient KidsBefore choosing a book: is there urgent danger?
Books are for learning and prevention. Some situations need action now.
Use urgent help first if there are threats, blackmail, sexual requests, image pressure, requests to keep secrets, talk about meeting in person or fear that contact has already escalated.
Do not shame. Do not panic. Do not delete evidence first. Slow the contact down and get help.
Quick answer
The easiest starting order
If you are not sure where to begin, use this simple path.
Free guide
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Book 1 foundation
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Choose your biggest need
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Practise one skill
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Act earlier next time
Choose by current concern
Pick the book that matches the problem in front of you
The POSH series is built so families can start where the pressure is strongest. Each book connects back to the same safety system.
I do not understand the games, apps and platforms
Start with Book 2. It explains the digital playground: games, chats, DMs, voice chat, livestreams, rewards, gifting and platform pathways.
Book 2: The Digital PlaygroundI am worried about grooming, secrecy or new risks
Start with Book 3. It focuses on new family risks, hidden pathways, manipulation, AI risks, secrecy and early red flags.
Book 3: The New Risks Families FaceMy child has big feelings, shame or online stress
Start with Book 4. It teaches emotional regulation, calmer responses, shame reduction and how adults can keep children talking.
Book 4: Emotional Regulation OnlineMy child struggles with losing, waiting or hearing no
Start with Book 5. It teaches frustration tolerance, screen transitions, recovery, repair and resilience in a digital world.
Book 5: Frustration ToleranceMy child clicks, replies or reacts too quickly
Start with Book 6. It teaches pausing before links, downloads, messages, images, posts, comments, friend requests and pressure.
Book 6: Thinking Before ClickingMy child is easily influenced, tricked or pressured
Start with Book 7. It teaches manipulation, misinformation, fake content, rumours, scams, edited screenshots, AI content and social pressure.
Book 7: Manipulation & MisinformationMy child struggles with focus, planning or follow-through
Start with Book 8. It teaches executive functioning skills: planning, memory, focus, impulse control, transitions and organisation.
Book 8: Executive FunctioningMy child needs more confidence to speak up
Start with Book 9. It teaches confidence as a safety skill: self-trust, courage, worth, asking for help and resisting pressure.
Book 9: Confidence Is a Safety SkillMy child needs clearer boundaries online and offline
Start with Book 10. It teaches privacy, respect, consent, saying no, personal information, relationships and trusted-adult boundaries.
Book 10: Healthy BoundariesChoose by adult role
Different safe adults need different starting points
POSH is for the whole circle around children. Start with the role you play, then choose the book that helps you become useful faster.
Parents and step-parents
Start with the free guide, Book 1, then Book 2 or Book 3 depending on whether the concern is platforms or warning signs.
Parent TrainingGrandparents and older generations
Start with the free guide, Grandparents Guide and Book 2 to understand the digital playground without overwhelm.
Grandparents GuideTeachers, carers and coaches
Start with safe adult warning signs, Book 3, Book 9 and the Safe Adult Response System.
Training For Every AdultChoose by child need
What does the child need more of right now?
Children generally show us more than they can explain. Behaviour can be a signal that a skill needs support.
More calm
If the child is overwhelmed, ashamed, angry, scared or shutting down, start with Book 4.
Book 4More patience
If the child struggles with waiting, losing, stopping or hearing no, start with Book 5.
Book 5More pause
If the child reacts, clicks, shares or replies too quickly, start with Book 6.
Book 6More judgement
If the child believes fake claims, rumours or pressure too quickly, start with Book 7.
Book 7More organisation
If the child struggles with planning, follow-through, impulsivity or transitions, start with Book 8.
Book 8More voice
If the child people-pleases, freezes or avoids asking for help, start with Book 9 and Book 10.
Book 9Quick selector
Tap the statement that sounds closest
This simple selector does not diagnose anything. It just points you to a sensible starting page.
I need the foundation
I need to understand apps and games
I am worried about hidden risk
My child is emotionally overwhelmed
Stopping screens causes conflict
My child acts before thinking
My child is easily influenced
My child struggles with planning or focus
My child needs confidence
My child needs boundaries
All 10 books
The full POSH Digital Resilience Series
Raising Digitally Resilient Kids
Foundation, digital resilience, safer conversations and the POSH parent system.
Open Book 1The Digital Playground
Games, apps, chats, voice, DMs, rewards, algorithms and platform risk.
Open Book 2The New Risks Families Face
New digital risks, secrecy, AI pressure, grooming pathways and early action.
Open Book 3Emotional Regulation Online
Big feelings, shame, fear, screen stress and calmer conversations.
Open Book 4Frustration Tolerance
Waiting, losing, hearing no, screen transitions and resilience.
Open Book 5Thinking Before Clicking
Pause skills for messages, links, downloads, images, posting and replying.
Open Book 6Manipulation and Misinformation
Scams, fake content, rumours, edited screenshots, AI content and social pressure.
Open Book 7Executive Functioning
Planning, focus, working memory, transitions, organisation and follow-through.
Open Book 8Confidence Is a Safety Skill
Self-trust, courage, asking for help, resisting pressure and speaking up.
Open Book 9Healthy Boundaries
Privacy, consent, respect, saying no, safe relationships and trusted adults.
Open Book 10